Throughout history, flowers have been associated with two things: love and secrecy. The ancient Romans painted roses on the ceilings of their banquet halls to remind guests that whatever secrets were shared sub rosa or “under the rose” were meant to be kept confidential. The association between flowers and secrecy was continued in the Middle Ages when a rose would be hung above a meeting table where private matters were discussed.
Today, an anonymous gift of flowers combines love and secrecy in a way that’s guaranteed to delight your recipient. The mystery of receiving a dozen red roses from an anonymous admirer will surely set your gift apart from the rest if it’s your loved ones’ birthday or a holiday where she’ll be receiving many gifts.
Even if you aren’t including your name on the gift card that comes with your flowers, you should include a heartfelt message explaining why you sent the bouquet. Consider sending a message with a tantalizing hint of your identity, but not enough to reveal who you are. If you want, choose a romantic moment later in the day to tell your loved one that you’re their secret admirer.
Anonymous flower gifts are also lovely for someone in your life who deserves an extra treat. If someone’s been working hard, seemingly without much notice, an anonymous Thank You bouquet will make them feel appreciated. In a case like this, the anonymous gift is an extra special reminder that their efforts are being noticed.
Go ahead. Be someone’s secret admirer today!